Tuesday, November 24, 2009

I wear 'em into the ground!

Big D says when he met me he knew I was a diamond in the rough. We're talking REAL ROUGH. I had been living in Southern California for 5 years before moving to Dallas and was accustomed to wearing cut-offs and birkenstocks. I was into running, biking, and swimming, but not shaving my legs. And I NEVER wore lipstick. I don't think I even owned any. (I still have make-up from high school. I know they say it gets germs in it and stuff, but mine is like museum quality. I wonder if I could get anything for it on ebay?) Anyway, so with love I began to "paint the barn" so to speak, to borrow an illustration from J. Vernon McGee. I started shaving my legs, wearing lip stick and even started buying some really nice clothes. Fast forward 11 years and I'm back to me.

Big D told me later that when he met my mom for the first time, he knew he wanted to marry me. My mom is a wonderful cook and homemaker, but mainly she always looks great. I learned a few years ago when my mom went to work part-time for Talbots, that she is a Talbots woman. A Talbots woman, I learned, has a look that is pulled together and is always accessorized. You know, they wear scarves and jewelry, stuff like that. Well, I should have told Big D at the time that I didn't inherit that gene from my mom. I did get her loves-to-move furniture gene (which Big D has become painfully familiar with), but not the look pulled-together gene. Big D never knew my Dad's mom. I thought it was funny when she wore her outdated raccoon hat to my soccer games (was raccoon EVER "in"??) and she always wore elastic around one of her shoes to keep it on. My granny had lots of money, she just didn't spend it on her wardrobe. I have only recently become aware that I am my granny, at least in this department.

I put on this shirt the other day and you know what I realized? My mom bought me this shirt in 1992! Yes, my friends, I have had this shirt for 17 years and I'm still wearing it. It's probably also the last piece of Ralph Lauren I've owned. My plaid pajama pants given to me at Christmas last year didn't fare so well. They have a huge rip across one knee. And yes, I know that means I spend WAY too much time in my pajamas. I also wear the heck out of shoes. Now running shoes I have to replace a couple of times a year. But church shoes last me years and years. I still wear shoes on Sunday that I bought 12 years ago in Dallas. In fact, I think I've only been shoe shopping (other than for running shoes) once since I've lived here (10 yrs).

I don't know what to say about this. It is what it is. I just thought I'd share this little bit of who I am. I'm not particularly happy or unhappy about it. I dress up on Sundays, meaning I do wear Sunday shoes and clothes. I usually wear the same thing. It's my Sunday uniform. (This is also related to the fact that I'm not pregnant or nursing, but I'm not my old running size 4. I'm in limbo hovering around size 6 and I refuse to go out and buy new clothes.) I would say I dress up when Big D and I go out and I do, but that's once a year for our anniversary. I'm just not much for dressing up. I like being comfortable and I like being me. I admire women who look pulled together and accessorized, but I don't envy them. I love my life. I live a life perfect for running shoes, jeans, and hoodie jackets. Who knows. In another 30 years I may be using an elastic band to hold my shoes together. When my grandkids laugh at me I'll chuckle to myself about it.

Oh and don't forget to comment to enter my $25 Lowe's gift card giveaway! I'll be drawing the winner on Friday. Just think of it, an extra $25 deal on the biggest shopping day of the year. And you don't even have to leave your house.


  1. This was such a great post! I love to get to learn more about you...and to get to see your witty sense of humor!

  2. I love it! Your Granny sounds like mine... I wanted you to know that I enjoy your pieced on adoption so much! They speak such truth. Today we are finalizing an adoption with our newest three little girls. God has blessed us! God meant for these girls to be ours... they just came in a different way. Anyway, thanks for so beautifully putting into words what adoption is and can be for so many.

  3. Thanks, ladies and congrats on your adoption Tammy! Isn't God good?

  4. I loved this post! I am somewhere in between.....I would like to be the Talbot's woman (in fact my dh let me shop there for some new clothes for my 40th birthday this year!!), but in real life I wear jeans every day. I also rarely buy dress shoes, but I buy running shoes 2 times a year. I wear the same black skirt with my black loafers almost every Sunday!
    However, I DO shave my legs!!!! (at least twice a week!)
    Have a super weekend!

  5. Ha! I do shave my legs now, too! It was the mountain biking thing that made me quit in college. However, I don't shave twice a week, usually just once:)

  6. Whoo girl - I STILL don't shave my legs or wear nylons! But I do wear dresses every day :).

  7. WOW-you've had a shirt 17 years-you are awesome! More awesome-you are a size 6-WOO HOO!

  8. I'm a jeans and t-shirt kind of gal myself. I added boots to the mix this winter and I love them. Dh would like for us to go to skirts, but he loves me in jeans and t-shirts as well. Stockings haven't been part of my wardrobe in many years, neither have heels. Great job on the size 6!! I am dropping now to a size 12 and feel good about that!!! I suppose if I exercised, EVER, I might lose more weight, but it's coming off on its own right now! Thanks for joining up at The Homeschool Channel. My dh is the program director. It's a busy life!!



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